Unlocking Secrets

Unlocking Secrets: A Memoir by Kathe Crawford

One woman’s journey from silence to self-love—and what it takes to finally live your truth.

At 31, Kathe was a young mother of two when she and her husband received news that changed everything. Together, they made the difficult decision to keep it a secret—from friends, family, even those they loved most. Long after his death, Kathe continued to protect that secret, building a life of outward success while privately holding the weight of a story she never told.

But secrets don’t stay quiet forever. As the years passed, the effort to keep things hidden became an emotional prison—until the pain of staying silent became greater than the risk of speaking out.

In Unlocking Secrets, Kathe shares the deeply personal path she walked to break free—from the legacy of silence she inherited, from the shame she didn’t know she carried, and from the fear that telling the truth would cost her everything. What she discovered instead was liberation.

This book is for anyone who’s ever hidden a part of themselves to feel safe. For those who’ve looked like they “have it all together” while quietly wondering when they’ll feel whole. If you’re ready to shed the weight of secrecy, reclaim your voice, and live with more courage and compassion—this story is for you.

Because the most powerful transformation begins the moment you stop hiding.

  • Kathe Crawford has a story unlike no other

    It is riveting. I read it in less than three sittings. It is also transformational. I recommend this to anyone who loves fascinating reading and exceptional transformational journeys. You'll find yourself transforming as well.

  • What an amazing book, story and writer

    I couldn’t stop reading it. It flows very smoothly and shows you how no matter what challenges you face, there’s always a way out. Also, everything that happens in your life is a blessing and it’s up to you to recognize it. It allowed me to deal with and understand my own ‘issues’ and ‘secrets’, and realize that I still have a lot of work in front of me.

  • A tribute to love

    Kathe Crawford spoke and wrote with a bright light of innocence and illumined truth all in the same breath. I'm grateful for the timing of this book release and her brave path towards an open heart. A story of perseverance and an uncovering of the soul. Amazing book. I’ll be ordering more books as gifts to my family and friends. I highly recommend.

  • A beautiful story of strength, courage and perseverance.

    From the moment I started reading Unlocking Secrets: My Journey to an Open Heart, I didn't want to put it down. The author takes us on a journey where heartbreak and disappointment are met with resiliency and determination. At some point in our lives, each of us is likely to come face to face with devastation. Kathe demonstrates for us that it's possible to overcome and thrive after going through the most difficult trials of life. Very well written and easy to read.

  • It truly will free you!

    Kathe's story draws you in right from the 1st page. It penetrates you like you are living this story right beside her, every step of the way. It truly is an inspiration to hear how she so eloquently puts her life on page, every chapter, with such courage, authenticity and truth. We can only be encouraged and moved right to the very core knowing that there is such reverence in living your truth and not hiding behind the past. Have shared it with several friends already who have in turn either been through similar circumstances or needed to open up to the possibility that their past challenges shall not define your life. Living in the light is what this brilliant author is all about....and I am a believer.